Yes, you heard it right now. There is an inside comparison between boys: that I am not like that person or that I do not have that kind of lifestyle, money, or status. Comparison is an attack from the enemy and an entrapment of the mind. There, I said it! Bro, all my friends are ahead of me and are in a good state. Is this also in your head? You start comparing when a person’s own story is not clearly defined.
Arjun was clear with his goal that he had to fight; he didn’t start comparing where Ram was fighting or even Alexander’s flight. Boys comparison is only with you only because your challenges in life are not tough enough and boys you are enough.
Find your own story boys, figure out what it is that will give fame but complete engagement immersion. Don’t give yourself the time to take a break, and if you figure out what it is, then there is no need to compare. Just stop. Then you are satisfied with yourself; you don’t need anyone else. Comparison isn’t a problem now. Why don’t others complain that they are richer than Elon Musk because they are happy with themselves? There is nothing else you need in life after that: money, name, respect, and fame.
I have this thing, which is called 20 seconds of insane courage, that when you want to ask a question, when you are embarrassed to, when you want to ask that girl out, and you are embarrassed to just have those 20 seconds of insane courage. For those 20 seconds, just believe that you have incredible bravery, just believe that nothing around you exits, and just do what you really want to do. Just for those who are not pulled back by the world, believe me, it will change your life boys. Dont compare yourself with other boys.
Boys No one hits those dead logs; no one hits stones on the neem plant; everyone hits stones on the mango tree. When you are important, you will be criticized. Failers will be there in life to make you stronger. Don’t give up. Some of our greatest relationship struggles can be tied to a moment of comparison that broke down the trust, the desire to work hard, and maintains a healthy relationship. Comparison can also break down boys communication, especially when comparing someone to another.
Basically, boys egos sometimes make it or kill them, and it might be that it can destroy them in many different ways. These boys are polluted with different habits like smoking, alcohol, drugs, and much more. In staring, they think about it just for a while, or they do it while no one is around. Sometimes the way they have lived has become their habit, and afterward, they have become into their lifestyle; boys feel cool about it, and social media is also into this and showing the lifestyle of celebrities.
Conclusion
There is a saying, “Don’t rush into the rat race”
